Tools or Sheep

Posted by Adam Fix on January 27, 2009

I was reading something a few days ago that caused me to wonder, “Do I treat the people at my church like tools or like sheep?”  One of the greatest shortcomings in many churches on Sunday mornings and other times throughout the week is that new people receive the most attention from the pastors and staff.  We view our worship services, small groups, or Bible studies as a chance to show someone how welcoming we can be.  But what message does that send to those who faithfully attend, serve, and give?

Please don’t misunderstand what I am saying.  I think it is appropriate to spend time with new people, to envision ways to make them feel welcome at your church, and to encourage them to join your family of believers.  I just think we are misguided when we do it at the expense of those who are already there.  I know I am guilty of looking over the shoulder of the person I am talking with and scanning the entry way for anyone who might not look familiar.  When I do this, it gives those who attend my church the idea that they are not someone I’m interested in shepherding, but rather a tool to help get more people into the building.  This does not encourage a warm and inviting church family.

I want new people to come to my church, to know Christ, and to become more fully formed disciples of Him.  For the glory of God.  What I don’t want to do, is have that happen at the expense of the sheep I know and love, those God has already entrusted to me.

Do you have a tendency to concentrate on new people?  How can we, as pastors, welcome people to our churches, but continue to be attentive to those whom God has already given us?